I don’t even know… [Family Blog]

I honestly can’t come up with a blog title. This week has been one big learning experience. Sunday, Olivia had a nasty cold hit her. Then of course while fighting the end of that cold, he breaks her arm. Now she has thrown up/spit up three times today. Each time after drinking milk. My pajamas are covered in milky potatoes and apples. Bring on another doctor visit tomorrow I guess.

via Blogger http://valentineslovehere.blogspot.com/2012/11/i-don-even-know.html

Duty of Parents

President Joseph Fielding Smith taught:

“It is the duty of parents to teach their children these saving principles of the gospel of Jesus Christ, so that they will know why they are to be baptized and that they may be impressed in their hearts with a desire to continue to keep the commandments of God after they are baptized, that they may come back into his presence. Do you, my good brethren and sisters, want your families, your children; do you want to be sealed to your fathers and your mothers before you … ? If so, then you must begin by teaching at the cradle-side. You are to teach by example as well as precept.”

(2012 October General Conference, Becoming Goodly Parents, Sat. Afternoon Session – By L. Tom Perry)

Casting Day [Family Blog]

This has been such a crazy last 28 hours. Here, here for the end of the day! This morning Olivia woke up bright eyed and bushy tailed so we started off with a walk in some gorgeous fall weather.

We cut the arm of an old sweater off to make it easier to sport the cast

Dad makes Autumn magical

Good side view of the temp cast

Soon after that, James and I dropped Olivia off with friends and went to a long morning at the OBGYN office. We had another ultrasound to see if our little boy is going to have clubbed feet. While we need to wait for the radiologist to assess the pictures, no one could help but notice how nice and straight his legs to his feet were. I am hopeful. Then we got to stick around for an appointment and the gestational diabetes test (that drink is foul).

We got some fun views of our baby boy!
Grandma was kind enough though to point out that his profile looks like Darth Vader.

After a quick lunch and a nap, we all headed down to Riverton to get the real cast on Olivia’s arm. The doctors and nurses were awesome and now Olivia has a fashionable hot pink cast which she will be showing off for four weeks.

 I doubt my pictures do Olivia justice because she really has been an excellent sport during this adventure.

via Blogger http://valentineslovehere.blogspot.com/2012/11/casting-day.html

From our Family Blog: Our First Break–not the Vacation Kind.

Well, it happened. Olivia has her first broken bone. Silly me for thinking this was an experience for much farther down the road of parenthood. Time to answer the basics:

When?
This afternoon about four o’clock. The break was confirmed (and wrapped) just before seven.

How?
Dear Dada was playfully playing “toss Olivia onto the bed” in our room but this time (congruent with my worst fear about this game), Olivia landed with her arm underneath her.

We knew something was wrong by the combination of things: the intensity of the cry and her inconsolable, ongoing cry. She couldn’t be distracted with toys or food for about 15 minutes. James got to work figuring out where to take her. We packed the diaper bag and prepared for our long afternoon/night. 

The Insta-care place was not that bad. Two hours from start to finish. We noticed (starting at home and then in the waiting room) that she would reach out her left arm and then drop it again and when she crawled she would get her weight off her left arm quickly. Right now she has her arm wrapped and stable. Tomorrow we find a doctor to cast it (and ironically, tomorrow is also the day we have another ultrasound to see if our little boy will need casts for clubbed feet).

Olivia hated (and I mean hated) everything from getting weighed to getting an x-ray, but she is sound asleep now. She was a trooped for staying up passed her bedtime and seemed happier once the arm was wrapped.

In her little hospital gown

Sitting on the child sized bench with her baby.
We tried to distract her by showing her pictures of babies
The break on her forearm. It’s big but still in line.
She had a long night.

Adjusting to not having her left arm at home.
James is worried this will stop her from becoming a lefty like him.

Well, there is the breaking news (hahaha, I crack myself up). Goodnight 🙂

via Blogger http://valentineslovehere.blogspot.com/2012/11/our-first-break-not-vacation-kind.html

No more monkeys jumping on the bed – From Instagram [Pic]

One moment everything was fine, and the next everything was not.

One fateful toss of Olivia onto the bed changed that. She landed with her arm behind her and started to fuss and cry pretty bad. A few minutes passed and she wouldn’t be consoled. She was still crying pretty hard and we noticed she was not using one of her arms. I picked up her arm and  it pretty limp and I detected a slight bend where arms were normally straight.

My stomach dropped. We grabbed the keys and headed to the InstaCare.

While there Olivia settled down pretty good, and was almost normal, except she was still favoring her left arm. At one point I gave her my wallet and she held it for a second, let it dropped and whimpered. Even so, she seemed relatively back to normal by the time we made it the exam room.

The only fussing she really did was when she doctors or nurses. Having recently been to the doctors for immunizations and the whole sha’bang, she got pretty worked up when they got close.

We did an X-ray and sure enough, a little break. The good news is that it stayed pretty much in line. They put a splint on it and we’ll see a specialist tomorrow.

Almost 3 hours later, we’re home and Olivia went right to sleep. We’re grateful it wasn’t any worse and all in all a smooth, calm experience, but sobering as well. Especially as the perpetrator. It was a reminder to be aware of your choices and how they impact others. And how some situations that seem relatively harmless can change quickly–which puts an emphasis on being aware and thoughtful.

Lessons learned.

 

Image via Instagram

Pray Always (2 Nephi 32:8)

From time to time, I find myself wondering if in this or that moment it would be appropriate to say a prayer. I know there are a few scripture mastery verses out there on the subject, so I always what is the hold up, even for myself. The Lord is pretty clear on the subject:’pray always.’

For me, the most telling verse is in 2 Nephi, chapter 32, just before an exhortation to pray always.

“If ye would hearken unto the Spirit which teacheth a man to pray, ye would know that ye must pray; for the evil spirit teacheth not a man to pray, but teacheth him that he must not pray” (2 Nephi 32:8. emphasis added).

From that, I conclude that the adversary is engaged in a deliberate, coordinated effort to break the habit and predisposition to pray. Any distance or time he can put between us and our Father in Heaven gives him a window of opportunity to make us miserable like unto himself (see 2 Nephi 2:27). Where so many blessings are contingent on our asking, I can see why disrupting our desires and intentions to pray would be key for him.

If we can recognize more readily the promptings to pray and the temptation to not pray, I suspect that knowledge alone will help us a great deal to put us in a better position to do the will of the Lord in a given situation.

To do that, let’s consider the Lord’s Prayer. When we consider the different aspects of the Lord’s prayer, what can they teach us recognizing the influences of the evil spirit that discourages us to pray?

Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil:

For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever.

Amen.

A few observations:

1. ‘As we forgive our debtors’

Effective prayer involves personal commitment to act in order to receive blessings. The adversary certainly would have us be passive in our prayers.

2. Give Us Our Daily Bread

Prayer, and our reliance on God is a daily matter. Our relationship is a daily experience. Satan would have us grow complacent and lax in the maintenance of that relationship.

Howard W. Hunter taught,

“If prayer is only a spasmodic cry at the time of crisis, then it is utterly selfish, and we come to think of God as a repairman or a service agency to help us only in our emergencies. We should remember the Most High day and night–always–not only at times when all other assistance has failed and we desperately need help” (Teachings of Howard W. Hunter, ed. Clyde J. Williams [1997], 39).

3. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.

This statement reminds me that I am the servant, and the one who needs guidance (not the other way around).

President Gordon B. Hinckley said,

“The trouble with most of our prayers is that we give them as if we were picking up the telephone and ordering groceries–we place our order and hang up. We need to meditate, contemplate, think of what we are praying about and for and then speak to the Lord as one man speaketh to another” (Teachings of Gordon B. Hinckley, 469).

Conclusion

Some of the best advice I received regarding the mindset of prayer was the imagining the Lord was there in front of you as you prayed. As I remember that there is not just another person listening to my prayers, that it is the Eternal and Infinite God and Father of us all, and let that faith guide my thoughts and words, suddenly prayer becomes a much more honest process.

“But behold, I say unto you that ye must pray always, and not faint; that ye must not perform any thing unto the Lord save in the first place ye shall pray unto the Father in the name of Christ, that he will consecrate thy performance unto thee, that thy performance may be for the welfare of thy soul”

Sketchnote: “Beware Concerning Yourselves”

It’s not a sketchnote in the truest sense of the method, but still a creative release while capturing meaning from Elder Anthony D. Perkin’s priesthood session address. I loved the imagery and what started as a sketch kind of took on a life of it’s own.

“Brethren, each of you has entered, or will soon enter, into the oath and covenant of the Melchizedek Priesthood. In that covenant is embedded a glorious journey that begins with receiving both the lesser and higher priesthoods, progresses through magnifying our callings, and climbs ever upward to God’s grandest vistas, until we receive ‘all that [the] Father hath.’

The wise designer of that celestial road has erected caution signs for our journey. The oath and covenant of the priesthood contains this soul-searching warning: ‘I now give unto you a commandment to beware concerning yourselves.'”

Read, listen or watch the address here.

The Blessing of Testimony is Ours to Work For

President Monson spoke in Priesthood Session to the great blessing of having a testimony and our responsibility to obtain and keep it. He said,

“There is absolutely nothing in this world that will provide more comfort and happiness than a testimony of the truth. Although to varying degrees, I believe every man or young man here tonight has a testimony. If you feel that you do not yet have the depth of testimony you would wish, I admonish you to work to achieve such a testimony. If it is strong and deep, labor to keep it that way. How blessed we are to have a knowledge of the truth.”

2012 October General Conference, See Others as They May Become, Priesthood Session – By Thomas S. Monson