Consider Your Ways (Perception, Reality, Success)

As part of my job, I keep a close eye on marketing and analytics blogs for a sense of industry trends and best practices that we can bring in to benefit what the Church is trying to accomplish.
One such blog post by Adobe, got me excited. I love a compelling idea paired with a simple visual representation. I give you the takeaway visual from Bill Ingram’s “You’re Not Really Segmenting Your Audience”
Venn diagram with two circles, overlapping with the center section the focus.
Now this was intended as a gospel study post. As I got looking at this, I saw just a higher application on life. Let’s generalize these circles to see the higher pattern:

perception-reality-success

So here we have a visual representation of how we perceive the world around us affects our ability to do those things we hope to accomplish. To the degree we understand things as they truly are, the more we can act with confidence expecting a certain result.
  • It wasn’t until man understood enough around the reality of gravity, air pressure and aerodynamics that Orville and Wilbur Wright got their contraption to take flight. Today there are thousands of flights in the air at any given time.
  • George Washington died, in effect, from a common cold. It wasn’t until we understood how bacteria and viruses work that we could develop reliable medicine to counteract their symptoms. Even serious diseases can be completely reversed or kept in check.
  • Religiously, the children of Israel throughout the Bible struggled to keep their promised land safe. But the Lord promised that to the degree they kept the commandments they would be protected.
  • Christ defines Eternal Life in terms of having a true grasp of reality: “And this is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent (John 17:3, emphasis added).”
  • Nephi in the Book of Mormon observed that the compass they were given by the Lord worked according to the faith and diligence they gave to it.

Isaiah emphasized a similar dichotomy to our perception compared to reality. He reminded us that,

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord.

For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9).”

I think this is a statement reminds us that our own perceptions, assumptions and constructs around how we make sense of this world should always be checked for accuracy.  To the children of Israel, Haggai offered on behalf of the Lord the following challenge to reflect and evaluate,

“Now therefore thus saith the Lord of hosts; Consider your ways.

“Ye have sown much, and bring in little; ye eat, but ye have not enough; ye drink, but ye are not filled with drink; ye clothe you, but there is none warm; and he that earneth wages earneth wages to put it into a bag with holes.

“Thus saith the Lord of hosts; Consider your ways, (Haggai 1:5-7).”

So here, then, is an opportunity to regularly evaluate what I am doing and what the net result of those actions. The good news is the Lord has a vested interest in our success. He is eternally gracious and committed to helping us bridge the gap between our perceptions and things as they really are. As He counseled Moroni,
“And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them (Ether 12:27).”
There are a number of ways He does this. Let’s brainstorm a few:
  • Prophetic counsel given through Church leaders at General Conference
  • Divine guidance in the form of the words from ancient prophets found in the scriptures
  • The sacrament gives us a chance to reflect, repent and commit anew to follow Jesus Christ
  • Loving input by parents, family or friends who see a risk we might not immediately see
  • Personal revelation where the Holy Ghost reminds us of the teachings of Christ (see John 14:26)

I’ll close by leaving this open ended with two links to two scriptures that can serve as jumping off points for how we might regularly consider our ways on a more regular basis:

What verses would you add? How do you ‘consider your ways’?

Virtues Over Vices

President Hinckley counseled us to focus on virtues over vice,

I am satisfied that if we would look for the virtues in one another and not the vices, there would be much more of happiness in the homes of our people. There would be far less of divorce, much less of infidelity, much less of anger and rancor and quarreling. There would be more of forgiveness, more of love, more of peace, more of happiness. This is as the Lord would have it.

Gordon B. Hinckley,
“Living Worthy of the Girl You Will Someday Marry”
April 1998 General Conference

On Political Correctness

Neal A. Maxwell observed,

The more what is politically correct seeks to replace what God has declared correct, the more ineffective approaches to human problems there will be, all reminding us of C. S. Lewis’s metaphor about those who run around with fire extinguishers in times of flood. For instance, there are increasing numbers of victims of violence and crime, yet special attention is paid to the rights of criminals. Accompanying an ever increasing addiction to pornography are loud alarms against censorship. Rising illegitimacy destroys families and threatens the funding capacities of governments; nevertheless, chastity and fidelity are mocked. These and other consequences produce a harsh cacophony. When Nero fiddled as Rome burned, at least he made a little music! I have no hesitancy, brothers and sisters, in stating that unless checked, permissiveness, by the end of its journey, will cause humanity to stare in mute disbelief at its awful consequences.

Neal A. Maxwell
“Becometh As A Child”
1996 General Conference