Temptation, the Power of Suggestion

As I get older, I can appreciate more and more the charge that a Book of Mormon prophet gave to “watch yourselves, and your thoughts, and your words, and your deeds,” (Mosiah 4:30).

I think its the same wisdom in ‘garbage in, garbage out’ and ‘you are what you eat.’ This has been driven home further for me as I watch my two children under the age of two develop and grow. Watching them has taught me how to recognize better how what I see or hear influences me.

The observation I am arriving at is the enhanced ability and access this gives the adversary to tempt us. In recent years, different Church leaders have affirmed that the power of Satan is real, but limited. He cannot read our thoughts, but can entice us. However, he is a damned spirit without a body, he doesn’t have the ability to reach out and affect our lives directly.

In a recent conference address, Elder L. Tom Perry cautioned us to not estimate the adversary’s determination to seek our misery since his fall from grace:

Satan, however, was not done. His backup plan—the plan he has been executing since the time of Adam and Eve—was to tempt men and women, essentially to prove we are undeserving of the God-given gift of agency. Satan has many reasons for doing what he does. Perhaps the most powerful is the motive of revenge, but he also wants to make men and women miserable like he is miserable. None of us should ever underestimate how driven Satan is to succeed. His role in God’s eternal plan creates “opposition in all things” (2 Nephi 2:11) and tests our agency. Each choice you and I make is a test of our agency—whether we choose to be obedient or disobedient to the commandments of God is actually a choice between “liberty and eternal life” and “captivity and death.”

Obedience to Law is Liberty“, L. Tom Perry

In a day where there really are very few moral reinforcements in society, it requires a great deal of personal honesty to identify the who and what of our desires. Satan cannot directly touch us. He has no physical presence to use to impose upon us. But he does have influence, he does have the power of suggestion. How does one guard against such active and intense manipulation? How do you protect yourself from the most experienced con artist?

Elder Perry’s talk title holds clues. One of my favorite verses from the Doctrine and Covenants speaks of how obedience is a source of protection and power:

“And again, verily I say unto you, that which is governed bylaw is also preserved by law and perfected and sanctified by the same.”

D&C 88:34

May we be mindful of the adversary’s continuous onslaught and find protection and staying power through obedience to God’s laws.

Consider Your Ways (Perception, Reality, Success)

As part of my job, I keep a close eye on marketing and analytics blogs for a sense of industry trends and best practices that we can bring in to benefit what the Church is trying to accomplish.
One such blog post by Adobe, got me excited. I love a compelling idea paired with a simple visual representation. I give you the takeaway visual from Bill Ingram’s “You’re Not Really Segmenting Your Audience”
Venn diagram with two circles, overlapping with the center section the focus.
Now this was intended as a gospel study post. As I got looking at this, I saw just a higher application on life. Let’s generalize these circles to see the higher pattern:

perception-reality-success

So here we have a visual representation of how we perceive the world around us affects our ability to do those things we hope to accomplish. To the degree we understand things as they truly are, the more we can act with confidence expecting a certain result.
  • It wasn’t until man understood enough around the reality of gravity, air pressure and aerodynamics that Orville and Wilbur Wright got their contraption to take flight. Today there are thousands of flights in the air at any given time.
  • George Washington died, in effect, from a common cold. It wasn’t until we understood how bacteria and viruses work that we could develop reliable medicine to counteract their symptoms. Even serious diseases can be completely reversed or kept in check.
  • Religiously, the children of Israel throughout the Bible struggled to keep their promised land safe. But the Lord promised that to the degree they kept the commandments they would be protected.
  • Christ defines Eternal Life in terms of having a true grasp of reality: “And this is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent (John 17:3, emphasis added).”
  • Nephi in the Book of Mormon observed that the compass they were given by the Lord worked according to the faith and diligence they gave to it.

Isaiah emphasized a similar dichotomy to our perception compared to reality. He reminded us that,

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord.

For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9).”

I think this is a statement reminds us that our own perceptions, assumptions and constructs around how we make sense of this world should always be checked for accuracy.  To the children of Israel, Haggai offered on behalf of the Lord the following challenge to reflect and evaluate,

“Now therefore thus saith the Lord of hosts; Consider your ways.

“Ye have sown much, and bring in little; ye eat, but ye have not enough; ye drink, but ye are not filled with drink; ye clothe you, but there is none warm; and he that earneth wages earneth wages to put it into a bag with holes.

“Thus saith the Lord of hosts; Consider your ways, (Haggai 1:5-7).”

So here, then, is an opportunity to regularly evaluate what I am doing and what the net result of those actions. The good news is the Lord has a vested interest in our success. He is eternally gracious and committed to helping us bridge the gap between our perceptions and things as they really are. As He counseled Moroni,
“And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them (Ether 12:27).”
There are a number of ways He does this. Let’s brainstorm a few:
  • Prophetic counsel given through Church leaders at General Conference
  • Divine guidance in the form of the words from ancient prophets found in the scriptures
  • The sacrament gives us a chance to reflect, repent and commit anew to follow Jesus Christ
  • Loving input by parents, family or friends who see a risk we might not immediately see
  • Personal revelation where the Holy Ghost reminds us of the teachings of Christ (see John 14:26)

I’ll close by leaving this open ended with two links to two scriptures that can serve as jumping off points for how we might regularly consider our ways on a more regular basis:

What verses would you add? How do you ‘consider your ways’?

Book of Mormon Notes – Page One…again.

We’ve started reading the Book of Mormon over as a family.

Book one, chapter one is one of my favorite sections.

For one, it begins with a man who witnesses a spiritual revival in his country, prays, receives a vision from God, receives a book from which he bears testifies of the Savior, and is rejected to the point that the people seek his life.

I wonder what it was like for Joseph as the restoration of the Church rolled on to go back to that opening scene. What a tender mercy–from the very chapter that gave us that phrase–for Joseph as well as for the rest of us. For not only does it serve as a pattern for what Joseph Smith was called to do, it is the invitation and expectation given to each of us.

It exemplifies the honest pursuit of truth. As Lehi heard from the prophets, he turned to the Lord in personal prayer and reflection to seek his own confirmation. Part of that process involved the scriptures (represented by the Book he received and like the Book of Mormon we invite investigators to read and ponder). As Lehi’s testimony of the divinity of the Savior grew, his natural inclination was to share it with others. By the end of the next chapter, that commitment to the Savior will require great sacrifice, taking his family and leaving his homeland and worldly possessions behind for a new world.  The story of Lehi also doesn’t skate around the sometimes drastic changes in life or lifestyle that come from following Jesus Christ.

That is an important legacy that ripples down through the generations of Lehi’s family and to our experiences today. And yet all of this is mentioned in Nephi’s narrative to catch us up to what he experienced. The whole first book of Nephi is easily one of my favorite not only because of the compelling narrative but the growth and challenges that they experienced as a family are so deep and full of insight.

 

Elder Scott: Don’t Rationalize Away Future Happiness

Richard G. Scott reminds us the importance of our actions, he said,

“Don’t rationalize away future happiness by taking shortcuts instead of applying sound gospel principles. Remember: little things lead to big things. Seemingly insignificant indiscretions or neglect can lead to big problems. More importantly, simple, consistent, good habits lead to a life full of bountiful blessings.”

“For Peace at Home”
April 2013 General Conference

The Shores of Galilee

This is the essence of the talk I gave on December 30, 2012 in the Little Cottonwood 9th Ward.

In our preparations we were invited to consider the talks given at conference over the past year and Brother Sorensen we could even tie it back to the Savior. I tease, but I am glad for that little reminder that all we do is based on the Savior Jesus Christ.

In my personal study I just finished rereading the most recent conference and my thoughts have turned to the twin talks of Elder Holland and Hales, focused on John chapter 21 in their addresses. In our time together I would like to bring those together and share some things I learned by studying them side by side. Before we start I’d like to share something I heard in an address that I hope sets the stage for the rest of the discussion.

Pool Story

When I was at the MTC in Provo, the following story was related by a brother who spoke at a Sunday Devotional. He spoke of a business trip he took to Boston where he had the opportunity to bring some of his grandchildren along. Being from the Salt Lake area so this was quite the trip for them.

After his meetings had concluded, he brought the grandkids together and said, ‘Okay, we are here in Boston, we can do anything you want. We can go to a baseball game, we can go see the Atlantic Ocean, go see historical sites or whatever you guys want to do…’

Each day they were there when this question was posed, the response was the same.

‘Grandpa, we just want to play in the hotel pool’ So, for three days, 1,000 miles away from home, they went to the pool.’

In summarizing the experience and relating it to us, this brother remarked, “Sometimes we are content with the wonderful and pass up the truly remarkable.”

He made the comparison to how we sometimes approach all the Lord’s many blessings and promises. He tells us, ‘seek and ye shall find, knock and it shall be open to you?’

But sometimes in our own way, we say, ‘Well thanks, but I’ll just go to church, read the scriptures and say my prayers.’ ‘I just want to play in the pool.’ As wonderful as these things are, they only scratch the surface of what the gospel of Jesus Christ can offer us when we truly take upon us His name (with all that that implies).

A Different Body of Water

So we come to Elder Holland and Elder Hales and John chapter 21: to the events surrounding a different body of water and the lessons we can learn there and, perhaps, how they can help us have truly remarkable experiences in our lives.

Come with me the shores of Galilee.

I’ll begin with Elder Holland’s commentary,

Their Lord and Master, their Counselor and King, was crucified. His mortal ministry was over, and the struggling little Church He had established seemed doomed to scorn and destined for extinction. His Apostles did witness Him in His resurrected state, but that only added to their bewilderment. As they surely must have wondered, “What do we do now?” they turned for an answer to Peter, the senior Apostle.

Here I ask your indulgence as I take some nonscriptural liberty in my portrayal of this exchange. In effect, Peter said to his associates: “Brethren, it has been a glorious three years. . . But that is over. He has finished His work, and He has risen from the tomb. He has worked out His salvation and ours. So you ask, ‘What do we do now?’ I don’t know more to tell you than to return to your former life, rejoicing. I intend to ‘go a fishing.’” And at least six of the ten other remaining Apostles said in agreement, “We also go with thee.” John, who was one of them, writes, “They went forth, and entered into a ship immediately.”

You will recall that three years previous that on these same shores was where Christ had first come to Peter and his brethren.

“And he saith unto them, Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.

“And they straightway left their nets, and followed him.”

Elder Hales taught,

As Christians today, we have the opportunity to act straightway, immediately, and decisively, just as Peter and Andrew did: “they forsook their nets, and followed him.” We too are called upon to leave our nets, to reject worldly habits, customs, and traditions. We are also called to forsake our sins.”

And so you and I, have started down this road of discipleship. Elder Hales continues,

This change, called conversion, is possible only through the Savior. Jesus promised: “If men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. … And my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.5 As we are made new in Christ, our very natures change and we no longer want to go back to our old ways.

Even so, faithful Christians will always be blessed to experience difficulties and disappointments. When these refining challenges come, we may be tempted to return to our old ways. After the Savior’s Crucifixion, He appeared to the women and told them that the brethren would find Him in Galilee. When Peter, the senior Apostle, returned to Galilee, he also went back to what he knew—to what he felt comfortable doing. “I go a fishing,”6 he explained, and took several disciples with him.

The Shores of Galilee

At the beginning fo a new year, as we consider fresh beginnings and resolutions, I have found so much personal application in this story. As I considered these experiences, from the pool to the shores of Galilee, I ask  myself these questions:

  • What are my personal shores of Galilee?
  • In what ways do we spiritually go fishing?
  • In what ways are we content with the wonderful and pass on the truly remarkable?

I think in many ways the shores of Galilee and the Pool from my first story represent where we are comfortable, what in the gospel comes easy for us. So when a challenge, uncomfortable task, or hard lesson lies before me, sometimes I find myself retreating to my personal shores of Galilee.

But as the case was with Peter and his brethren, often when we retreat back there, our toils in the night don’t yield much fruit.

Elder Holland continues the narrative,

Their first night back on the lake, they caught nothing—not a single fish. With the first rays of dawn, they disappointedly turned toward the shore, where they saw in the distance a figure who called out to them, “Children, have you caught anything?” Glumly these Apostles-turned-again-fishermen gave the answer no fisherman wants to give. “We have caught nothing,” they muttered, and to add insult to injury, they were being called “children.”4

“Cast the net on the right side of the ship, and ye shall find,” the stranger calls out—and with those simple words, recognition begins to flood over them. Just three years earlier these very men had been fishing on this very sea. On that occasion too they had “toiled all the night, and [had] taken nothing,” the scripture says. But a fellow Galilean on the shore had called out to them to let down their nets, and they drew “a great multitude of fishes,” enough that their nets broke, the catch filling two boats so heavily they had begun to sink.

Now it was happening again. These “children,” as they were rightly called, eagerly lowered their net, and “they were not able to draw it for the multitude of fishes.”8 John said the obvious: “It is the Lord.”9 And over the edge of the boat, the irrepressible Peter leaped.”

In the Book of Haggai, in the Old Testament, I love these words inviting us to reflect,

Now therefore thus saith the Lord of hosts; Consider your ways.

Ye have sown much, and bring in little; ye eat, but ye have not enough; ye drink, but ye are not filled with drink; ye clothe you, but there is none warm; and he that earneth wages earneth wagesto put it into a bag with holes.

Thus saith the Lord of hosts; Consider your ways,” (Haggai 1:5-7).

I return to Elder Holland,

“Peter had an exchange with the Savior that I consider the crucial turning point of the apostolic ministry generally and certainly for Peter personally, moving this great rock of a man to a majestic life of devoted service and leadership.”

You will recall the Savior’s words,

Peter do you love me? Feed my lambs.

Peter do you love me? Feed my lambs.

Peter do you love me? Feed my sheep. 

Elder Hales taught us,

This is the call of Christ to every Christian today: “Feed my lambs. … Feed my sheep” . . .

For many, the call to be a Christian can seem demanding, even overwhelming. But we need not be afraid or feel inadequate. The Savior has promised that He will make us equal to His work. “Follow me,” He said, “and I will make you fishers of men.”10 As we follow Him, He blesses us with gifts, talents, and the strength to do His will, allowing us to go beyond our comfort zones and do things we’ve never before thought possible. This may mean sharing the gospel with neighbors, rescuing those who are spiritually lost, serving a full-time mission, working in the temple, raising a child with special needs, loving the prodigal, serving an ailing companion, enduring misunderstandings, or suffering affliction. It means preparing ourselves to answer His call by saying, “I’ll go where you want me to go; I’ll say what you want me to say; I’ll do what you want me to do; I’ll be what you want me to be.”

Our Weekly Feast

As I have reflected on this experience of the apostles on the shores of Galilee, there’s a pattern that emerged, that I personally would like to take forward into the new year.

Every week I get to come to place where I am very comfortable. It’s a place where I can ‘go fishing’ for truth and insights into the gospel. I get to come to church and come to this sacrament meeting. Here we do not eat fishes, but bread and water. As we partake of the Sacrament, each of us get an opportunity to dine with the Savior.

In the quiet time when the bread and water is passed, I will let the Savior ask me,

‘James, lovest thou me?’ and as humbly as I can, I’ll respond, “Lord, thou knowest that I love thee.”

Then I’ll let the spirit guide in the invitation to follow him, “Feed my lambs, feed my sheep.” I’ll consider my ways and let Spirit help me recognize opportunities to be a disciple of Christ in the coming week.

I trust that as I act on those impressions, the light to see where I can improve will grow. My capacity to serve will increase. Line upon line, I can become the type of disciple Christ needs me to be in my home, in my ward, in work and with all those I meet.

[Testimony/Close]

 

Featured image courtesy of James Emery via Flickr.

Calculated to Bless

Henry B. Eyring taught,

Abraham’s heart seems to have been right long before Sarah conceived Isaac and before they received their promised land. Heaven had other purposes to fulfill first. Those purposes included not only building Abraham and Sarah’s faith but also teaching them eternal truths that they shared with others on their long, circuitous route to the land prepared for them. The Lord’s delays often seem long; some last a lifetime. But they are always calculated to bless. They need never be times of loneliness or sorrow or impatience.

Henry B. Eyring
2012 October General Conference, “Where Is the Pavilion?”

Our Exchange with the Savior

Robert C. Gay of the Seventy said,

This is the exchange the Savior is asking of us: we are to give up all our sins, big or small, for the Father’s reward of eternal life. We are to forget self-justifying stories, excuses, rationalizations, defense mechanisms, procrastinations, appearances, personal pride, judgmental thoughts, and doing things our way. We are to separate ourselves from all worldliness and take upon us the image of God in our countenances.

Robert C. Gay
2012 October General Conference, “What Shall a Man Give in Exchange for His Soul?”

Sketchnote: “Beware Concerning Yourselves”

It’s not a sketchnote in the truest sense of the method, but still a creative release while capturing meaning from Elder Anthony D. Perkin’s priesthood session address. I loved the imagery and what started as a sketch kind of took on a life of it’s own.

“Brethren, each of you has entered, or will soon enter, into the oath and covenant of the Melchizedek Priesthood. In that covenant is embedded a glorious journey that begins with receiving both the lesser and higher priesthoods, progresses through magnifying our callings, and climbs ever upward to God’s grandest vistas, until we receive ‘all that [the] Father hath.’

The wise designer of that celestial road has erected caution signs for our journey. The oath and covenant of the priesthood contains this soul-searching warning: ‘I now give unto you a commandment to beware concerning yourselves.'”

Read, listen or watch the address here.

Discipleship is a Marathon, Not a Sprint

Neal A. Maxwell said,

“Paul wrote of how, even after faithful disciples had “done the will of God,” they “[had] need of patience.” ( Heb. 10:36.) How many times have good individuals done the right thing initially only to break under subsequent stress? Sustaining correct conduct for a difficult moment under extraordinary stress is very commendable, but so is coping with sustained stress subtly present in seeming routineness. Either way, however, we are to “run with patience the race that is set before us” ( Heb. 12:1), and it is a marathon, not a dash.”

“Endure it Well”
April 1990 General Conference

Safety in Following Prophet

Harold B. Lee taught,

“The only safety we have as members of this church is to do exactly what the Lord said to the Church in that day when the Church was organized. We must learn to give heed to the words and commandments that the Lord shall give through his prophet, “As he receiveth them, walking in all holiness before me… as if from mine own mouth, in all patience and faith.” (D&C 21:4-5) There will be some things that take patience and faith. You may not like what comes from the authority of the Church. It may contradict your political views. It may contradict your social views. It may interfere with some of your social life. But if you listen to these things, as if from the mouth of the Lord himself, with patience and faith, the promise is that “the gates of hell shall not prevail against you; yea, and the Lord God will disperse the powers of darkness from before you, and cause the heavens to shake for your good, and his name’s glory.”

The Improvement Era, Dec. 1970, p. 126

Role of Sacrifice in Salvation

Joseph Smith taught,

Let us here observe, that a religion that does not require the sacrifice of all things never has power sufficient to produce the faith necessary unto life and salvation; for, from the first existence of man, the faith necessary unto the enjoyment of life and salvation never could be obtained without the sacrifice of all earthly things. It was through this sacrifice, and this only, that God has ordained that men should enjoy eternal life; and it is through the medium of the sacrifice of all earthly things that men do actually know that they are doing the things that are well pleasing in the sight of God. When a man has offered in sacrifice all that he has for the truth’s sake, not even withholding his life, and believing before God that he has been called to make this sacrifice because he seeks to do his will, he does know, must assuredly, that God does and will accept his sacrifice and offering, and that he has not, nor will not seek his face in vain. Under these circumstances, then, he can obtain the faith necessary for him to lay hold on eternal life.”

Joseph Smith, Lectures on Faith 6:7

The Most Important Commandment

When asked, ‘what is the most important commandment?,’ Harold B. Lee responded,

The most important of all the commandments of God is that one that you’re having the most difficulty keeping today. If it’s one of dishonesty, if it’s one of unchastity, if it’s one of falsifying, not telling the truth, today is the day for you to work on that until you’ve been able to conquer that weakness. Then you start on the next one that’s most difficult for you to keep.” 


Church News, May 5, 1973, p. 3

Developing Spirituality

Dallin H. Oaks taught,

“We seek spirituality through faith, repentance, and baptism; through forgiveness of one another; through fasting and prayer; through righteous desires and pure thoughts and actions. We seek spirituality through service to our fellowmen; through worship; through feasting on the word of God, in the scriptures and the teachings of the living prophets. We attain spirituality through making and keeping covenants, through conscientiously trying to keep all the commandments of God. Spirituality is not acquired suddenly. It is the consequence of a succession of right choices. It is the harvest of a righteous life.

Through the lens of spirituality, we see all the commandments of God as invitations to blessings. Obedience and sacrifice, loyalty and love, fidelity and family all appear in eternal perspective.”

Trying to Cut a Deal with the Lord

Neal A. Maxwell taught,

“Perhaps when we murmur we are unconsciously complaining over not being able to cut a special deal with the Lord. We want full blessings but without full obedience to the laws upon which those blessings are predicated. For instance, some murmurers seem to hope to reshape the Church to their liking by virtue of their murmuring. But why would one want to belong to a church that he could remake in his own image, when it is the Lord’s image that we should come to have in our countenances?”

“Murmur Not”
October 1989 General Conference

Keeping the Commandments Includes Caring for the Poor

Russell M. Nelson taught,

“Every person so baptized who receives the gift of the Holy Ghost, which seals the ordinance, is under solemn covenant with the Lord to obey his commandments. Caring for the poor is one of those commandments. Surely, in Book of Mormon times, members of the Church had a sacred obligation to care for the poor.”

“In the Lord’s Own Way”
April 1986 General Conference

(See Also 2 Ne. 9:30; Mosiah 4:16–27; Alma 1:29–31, Alma 32:2–6, Alma 34:28; Hel. 4:11–12; Morm. 8:35–39.)

Be Loyal in the Small Things

Boyd K. Packer taught,

“You can put it down in your little black book that if you will not be loyal in the small things you will not be loyal in the large things. If you will not respond to the so-called insignificant or menial tasks which need to be performed in the Church and Kingdom, there will be no opportunity for service in the so-called greater challenges. A man who says he will sustain the President of the Church or the General Authorities, but cannot sustain his own bishop is deceiving himself. The man who will not sustain the bishop of his ward and the president of his stake will not sustain the President of the Church.”

(Boyd K. Packer, “Follow the Brethren,” Speeches of the Year, BYU, 1965, pp. 4-5)